It’s not always easy for a man to keep a woman happy. Before we begin, ask yourself these simple questions:
• Is my girlfriend happy?
• Do I spend enough time with her?
• Do I give her enough attention?
• Does she really love me?
If you have doubts about these questions, perhaps you want to take a look as some good old fashioned advice about love, marriage and keeping a relationship alive and healthy.
Always Be Yourself
Some of the least handsome guys around often score the best looking girls. Why is that? That’s because self confidence nearly always wins out over good looks. Nothing is sexier to a woman than the raw, male beast of self confidence. A Guys usual reaction to trying to catch a good looking girl is to put on a show. A fake show, often laced with false bravado and big stories about various conquests. Any girl with half a brain can see through that act and the rest just couldn’t give a damn. Act yourself and you can’t go wrong.
It’s The Little Things That Count
Open the door for her, check her car’s oil and water. It’s things like this, small things that count. It invents good memories for her. Pulling the seat out for her at home or at a restaurant, carrying something for her and general just being a plain old fashioned gentleman.
Never Look At Other Women.
The simple physical, genetic truth about life and women is that they ultimately have one need, to find a lifetime partner with whom they can have children. To make this work, the man must show his devotion and be a person she can trust and rely on. If you truly love her, don’t flirt with death. Remember, “Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.” Let her know in every way possible that you are hers.
Laughter Is The Best Medicine.
Never were truer words spoken. A little bit of the fool in you is not such a bad thing and a sense of humor, a good sense of humor, is a valuable asset in any relationship. Keep her smiling, keep her laughing and she will look beautiful forever.
Sharing A Common Interest
Perhaps you both like the same type of music or films, maybe you have similar hobbies. Sharing the same intersts and pastimes also means that you commune within the same circles. Being together as much as possible in a relationship is what it is really all about, isn’t it?
I’ve Got Her, Job Done
Nonsense! Many men become lazy and sloppy, believing they “collared” their girl and it’s done. Keep yourself neat, clean, well shaven, well groomed and presentable at all times. She will soon tire of a guy who gets sloppy, fat and lazy. Check yourself in the mirror and ask yourself, “Am as good as the day I met her?” If you have ever checked out, “The Magic Of Making” Up, by T.W. Jackson, you will have seen how hard he has stressed that looking your best is everything.
Fit Into Her Social Circle
She had a life before she began her relationship with you. Not only should you respect that, but you should be a part of it as well. Make a good impression on her parents and family, let her proudly announce you to her friends and colleagues. Never be jealous or resentful towards her social circle of friends.
Go With The Mood Changes
Women’s moods change more often than mens. In fact to many these mood swings can be downright confusing and frustrating. Your chore is to be sensitive and show support at these times. It’s a hormonal thing, women are women it’s the design of things and there’s damn little you can do about it except to be supportive.
Keep Things New And Fresh
This piece of advice ended up last, but it’s possibly the most important. Do not fall into a rut where every day is predictatble. Experiment with new things. Try out new hobbies and pastimes together, romance her in new ways and surprise her delightful with your ingenious lovemaking. Take her somewhere you have never taken her before and woo her with something you know she loves.
There’s the nuts and bolts of it and for some real serious help you should check out T dub Jacksons, “The Magic of Making Up” . If you are doing it hard, your relationship is starting to crack, she has already gone or you simply want to invigorate or spice up and already great relationship, then take a look at the King of Kama Sutra himself, T.Dub. He’s just one click away.
Love, Laura
